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Boy, female friendships are for the strong, cause only the strong will survive!

During the process of conducting an overt observation, Our Today has determined that the bond between male friends is dedicated and strong while females tend to tear each other down, even the ones that are considered ‘friends’.
Yes, it is hard to let go of people who are cared for, but letting go of toxic relationships can be one of the most liberating and healthy decisions any person will ever make.

A strong friendship between females is cultivated through strength, good quality people; with that you can have a clear conscience and a good sense of security that you’re surrounded by women who can genuinely be happy for you when you succeed, or be present through hardships.

 

Also remember, birds of a feather flock together. Therefore, if you’re around toxic people, you’ll become toxic as well.

Whatever energy one chooses to invest in, whether positive or negative, it will be the one that will grow in your life and come back to you.

#TheBeginningOfACycle

That’s why the women you choose to surround yourself with can be a direct reflection on your personal brand. It has the potential to influence your thoughts, vibe and beliefs. 

Shout out to all the real ones- and not the demons!

EleganceJournal advises: “If you’re on the path of growth and transformation and continuously seeking to evolve, then it’s paramount that you seek to surround yourself with people who respect and value you, stay away from anyone who might cloud your judgement, and eventually
block you from reaching your goals.”

That doesn’t mean you should cut off your ‘friends’ entirely, instead become aware of their negative traits and whether those traits affect you as well.

EleganceJournal continues: “For that reason, it’s important to recognise quality friendships that help nurture and protect your positive energy, and avoid negative influences that may drain you. And ladies, when you surround yourself with quality friends, it inspires YOU to become a better
friend as well.”

Our Today has looked at the six signs of a healthy female and we say “Be the person you want to meet!”

The Confident Friend

Women who are assertive and confident in themselves have a sense of direction, they don’t believe in jealousy and they thrive off raising others.

The Open-Minded Friend

Women who are inspired and curious always challenge the status quo.
They opt not to live in a fixed, closed box.

The Authentic Friend

Straight and forward, women who aren’t afraid of showing their true selves.

#RIDEorDIE

The Friend Who Invests in Herself

Women who seek personal growth and development nurture a shared desire to evolve.

#BecomingAWoman

The Positive Friend

Women who can find light in a dark situation, turning sad news to jokes. Women who can find a positive side to any situation, always realising things could be worse.

The Humble and Discreet Friend

Women who know how to be grateful for their success, and don’t brag about it.

“You can hype ennuh, but you nuh haffi show off.”

Do you have healthy female friends?
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